Preheat oven to 350˚F (180˚C). Grease a 9 inch (23 centimeter) spring form pan with additional butter and flour.
In a large saucepan, add butter and honey over low heat. Heat just until butter has melted and honey thins, but does not come to a boil. Remove from heat.
Stir in the lemon zest, cinnamon, cloves, cardamom, rum, and sugar.
In a small bowl, beat together eggs and milk. In a medium bowl, combine baking powder and flour.
Alternate adding the flour mixture and milk mixture to the spiced honey: flour, milk, flour, milk, flour, mixing well after each addition.
Pour batter into prepared pan. Bake in preheated oven until toothpick inserted in center comes out clean, about 1 hour.
Remove from oven and let rest in pan for 10 minutes before removing the spring form sides. Allow to cool completely.
Preheat oven to 200˚F (90˚C).
Once the cake has completely cooled, slice the cake into 1/2 inch (1.25 centimeter) thick slices, then cut the slices into 1/2 inch (1.25 centimeter) cubes. Place the cubes on 2 large baking sheets in a single layer.
Bake in preheated oven until dry and toasted, 3-4 hours. If using 2 pans, alternate racks every hour.